• Perin Ilavia’s Article

    Perin Ilavia’s Article

    Have you contemplated how you’d react if you discovered your child was gay! Would you rupture a nerve or would you react with equanimity? Talking to a cross section of people, I found most of them reacted – Gay?!! Homosexuality has been prevalent in every strata of society and always swept under the carpet and… Continue reading

  • Coming Out to Mom

    Coming Out to Mom

    Gosh! I wanted to tell this to my mom so badly. My god! today these words come out so easily and a few years back it seemed so impossible. I have visualized telling this to my mom and her reactions – over hundred times in my mind. And I really underestimated her. Because I had… Continue reading

  • Getting Tested for HIV

    Getting Tested for HIV

    by Jay Vithalani Getting tested for HIV is never easy. Some people hate needles. Some people are so terrified at the prospect of a “positive” result that they refuse to get tested. Others justify their “test abstinence” by adopting a fatalistic attitude: what good will it do to know my HIV status given that I… Continue reading